2015-02-10 14:05

 

Why 90 years born child has been mired in in pyramid schemes?

 

CNDSN2 month 10 days (Xinmin Evening News) reporter survey, nearly since period of time, some lawbreakers pretext of "get rich quick", to "pull the head" entry fee "charge" "team payment" and other forms, deceive the masses to participate in pyramid schemes, to seek illegal interests. In these cases, the pyramid selling activities presented new characteristics: object more younger, 90 become MLM "main force"; means more concealed, some are take the legitimate companies under the guise of, under the banner of direct selling, franchising and by engaging in pyramid selling activities; organizations more closely, the division more clear. Inexperienced 90 is how to step by step into the MLM Gang set the trap, and why wallow in inextricably bogged down in? To see the reporter investigation --

After 90 has gradually become the main force of MLM ""

Recently, a reporter from the Fairview police station of Rugao city public security bureau understands, the police brought down two hidden in the old area of the pyramid marketing dens, rescue MLM personnel 21. To participate in the handling of the police found, now the MLM Gang, after 90 become MLM "main force". Don't want to "make the world", just want to "fishing in the world", after 90 in MLM mire cannot extricate oneself.

"The last time just put their nest end off, less than a week's time they stage a comeback." Rugao City Public Security Bureau Fairview police station deputy director Li Baizhan told reporters, also in Gao seven South Group, or the last time that a few old faces, distance lose less than a week, the pyramid selling small leader and put them together, but this also failed to escape the fate of being the end off. In this pyramid marketing dens personnel review process, and dug a is located in bridge yuan pyramid selling point and one end off.

"To participate in pyramid schemes are 90, the review process, these children learn the MLM, really make people feel very sad."

"Here is fine, Guanchiguanzhu, there are so many people together with."

"Why do you want to put our severance, re training for a period of time, we will be able to become a millionaire."

"You asked me why I don't go home to have the Spring Festival? Money is successful."

In the face of these slow-witted children, police also appears very helpless. "No way, we are earnestly advised them, but they still don't realize MLM harm, strictly speaking, they are victims. For their solution, only education after they will be sent to the station, send them home.

The child you open your eyes

Pyramid selling in the end what kind of magic power, can let people so irrational, persistent and enthusiastically involved?

In these MLM elite passionate speech, the grass on the ground can be blown to heaven, the stars will drag your eyes, they promise -- after two years of effort, you will be able to enter the ranks of the rich. In fact, as long as we more seriously, many details we see not hard they described the rich dream is an illusion and suspicious, but in the rush to the success of the 90's eyes, was worried about their venture without the door, suddenly encountered the MLM organizations speech vivid short-term success in theory, these beautiful promises a while let them believe in what they're doing will completely change their life and fate, so that they can be early to create a brilliant life.

When everyone is still to 90 as children, these children had been lost in the MLM team fabricated wealth dream. The core idea of MLM is rich is successful, in MLM system, the definition of success to be narrowly defined in can pull off the assembly line, whether can the performance, earning large quantities of gold each day. This seemingly "meet the commercial social value idea" success, have a great deceptive. In fact, any success cannot do without personal contribution to society, success is a social evaluation of individual contributions and return. And MLM organization by defrauding capitation to sustain the life of reaping without sowing, basically does not create value for society.

The MLM Gang as successful, it is misleading the youth, caused very bad social influence.

Frustration is a compulsory course for young people

Why after 90 more easily with the MLM "Tao"? Two national psychological consultant Miu Qinghua said, compared with that in the society for a long time after 80, after 90 is still in the stage of most of a green hand, they experience less, credulous consequences for others, pyramid schemes do not have a clear understanding, inexperience and eager for success, just use this point of pyramid sales hit less investment and quick, MLM banner, deceived many young people. "For their social awareness is low, it is because of this lack of experience, so that they are more likely to trust others promise, those pyramid retail personnel in Utopia, in their view seems to be within reach."

All the time since, excessive protection and excessive intervention is China's family education "stubborn" in one of the second generation of only children, 90 after the body is more obvious, since the childhood parents to their caregivers, encountered difficulties and setbacks, by the parents. In adulthood, everything is not independence, without their parents will be in a constant state of anxiety, the netizen aptly called "older children".

"The plant is growing as a, kept in a greenhouse, only to the sun and rain, not a little snow, as long as a setback, parents out 'welcome', and not from the children themselves to find the problem, the analysis is non, life is a temporary comfort, in the course of time the child's character also becomes weak, cowardice. You know, sour, sweet, bitter, hot should be growth, experience setbacks is required in the growing up of children." Miu Qinghua suggested that, when the child's education, must let the children learn how to face, how to solve the problem, can make they throw away the "bottle", too many parents give shelter out, become a social person.

Many young people lack of resistance to frustration, and the society is the reality, this part of children will inevitably run into a wall, then leave psychological shadow, if things go on like this they will be unable to get up after a fall, not willing to communicate with others, even with their own parents zero AC, prison.

The growth of parents don't defend him

Children make mistakes, parents always think their children be the pink of perfection, always stand in the position of the child for his defense, but do not address the child's problems and disadvantages.

"The analysis from psychology, parents of shield behavior in children but also for their own protection, more parents to children as a 'double' own, think others said their children is not criticize yourself. In addition, some parents also have psychological compensation is very serious, children will be regarded as a "certificate of merit" of their own, not allow anybody to smear, smear." Miu Qinghua said.

As the child's first teacher, parent should be good at discovering the flash point of children, but also can see there children shortcomings. The relationship between the parents should have a correct understanding of themselves and their children. The child is not their own "works", but an independent individual, the good and the bad are the individual component defects must learn to accept children, and children to establish relationships of equality.

(original title: Why 90 years born child has been mired in in pyramid schemes?)

Editor: Blue