CNDSN August 26th (three Huang Jinbao) it is likely that many entrepreneurs will encounter problems. Your choice and persistence, there will be people to support the opposition, this is a natural thing to do. But it's easy for us to get caught in an irritable mood. The more is to make a lightning decision to solve all the more, find themselves by emotion.

I used to this kind of thing is very upset, but then saw the word, my heart will not be so naughty --

What do you mean?

For example, I'm going to argue today that I know that my mind is right, so what's left is the question of how to communicate.

Your communication object, you may be your family, friends, colleagues, partners, these are not unreasonable people, they just have their own views, and this view may not be the same as you. If you can't convince them, it's a problem. And then further, because the heart in a hurry, the communication into a controversy, the last one did not convince anyone, this is not their own wisdom enough?

We often say: be in the right and self-confident. Because I think they have a reason, so the voice is big enough. But the reality is often: in order to prove that you have reason, so the voice is particularly large. Two people as long as the argument, it must be more controversy, the more loudly.

How to do?

You let the other person to say, after he finished you behaved very cool. Calm your mind.

If you always have to say, this is not right, but did not say why the right, the other side of course, do not listen. When you are calm, he might think, since you are so sure, maybe this thing really is not what he wants to do so.

Therefore, unless you do not have to make clear the situation, otherwise when you truly "reason", it is not required to cover each other with the sound, and slowly the reason to talk on the. 3

(original title: Treasure elder brother's theory of Relativity: communicate, persuade the other person's golden rule)

Editor: small Shen